Gary Shirley & Amber Portwood’s Relationship Deteriorates

Gary Shirley & Amber Portwood’s Relationship Deteriorates


“Teen Mom OG” stars Gary Shirley and Amber Portwood confronted each other on part one of the season nine reunion amid their deteriorating relationship.

Teen Mom OG stars Gary Shirley and Amber Portwood confronted each other on part one of the season nine reunion amid their deteriorating relationship. Host Dr. Drew Pinsky accused Amber of creating a “sh*tstorm” for going online and accusing Gary of trying to have an inappropriate relationship with her.

Gary explained that he once went over to Amber’s house to comfort her, where he hugged her for 10 or 15 minutes.

“I literally felt that he was trying to be genuinely nice at first and it turned into touch here and a touch there and it was feeling a bit off,” Amber told Dr. Drew. “He even said to me 100 percent don’t tell Kristina that I’m doing this.”

Gary said he would never want to be with Amber romantically. He maintained that he loves Kristina and if he didn’t want to be with his wife, he wouldn’t want to be with Amber either.

“The way I feel is… I care about Amber,” he said. “I have a wonderful wife that I absolutely love. If I wanted somebody else other than my wife it wouldn’t be Amber.”

Fans previously got a sneak peek at this major blowup when MTV released a teaser that showed Amber calling Gary’s wife Kristina Shirley an “absolutely horrible” person. Gary just laughed off her accusation.

The exes had been getting along up until season nine, but Amber’s fractured relationship with her 12-year-old daughter Leah led for Amber’s connection with Gary and his wife to also disintegrate.

How Gary & Amber’s Feud Started

It started back in February with Amber claiming Gary was a cheater during one of her Instagram rants, which has since become a weekly occurrence for the Teen Mom OG star.

“Homewreckers? OK, you know what? Gary, if you and Kristina are so happy, then why don’t you tell her about how many times you had called me up and talked about sexual encounters that we used to have,” Amber, 30, said during the rant, claiming the encounter was witnessed by a Teen Mom producer. “How many times did you sit there and say, ‘Oh, you’re missing big daddy?’”

“I mean, there’s even an incident where I was super, super sad, you’re the one who sat on the couch, grabbed me, laid down and forced me to lay down on you, put your arm around my waist underneath my boobs and started rubbing on my head,” she continued. “The producer knew about that — the old producer, because this was before — he walked in on it and then he walked out because he left his coat.”

“You’re two-faced,” the 30-year-old added in another rant. “And your wife’s two-faced, saying that I’m like a teenager, I’m like a teenage daughter.”

While she claimed that Gary was improper with her, Amber maintained that she never acted on his flirtations. “I would never do anything inappropriate, guys,” she said. “I’m happy!”

Everything Boils Down to Leah

Things between Gary, Amber and Kristina had been fine up until Leah decided to pull back from her mother. She was disappointed after Amber canceled one of their visits, and was hurt again when Amber didn’t show up to her birthday party at Gary and Kristina’s house. Amber claimed that it was “fake” and that Leah would understand why she didn’t show up when she was older.

Amber wanted to spend alone time with Leah, but it’s not something the 12-year-old wanted with her mother. “I know personally I’m not ready to do anything one-on-one yet,” Leah told Gary during an episode of Teen Mom OG. “I don’t actually know when I’m going to be ready to reach out. For me, that would probably look like her coming over and maybe get ice cream. I just know that I don’t really ever want to stay the night or anything like that.”

She doesn’t consider Amber to be her mother. “I’ve grown up with the fact that Kristina is my mom,” she continued. “Being a mom isn’t like ‘Oh my God I just gave birth to this child. I’m a mom.’ It’s taking care of that child and like actually being the mom of that child.”

To find out what happens at the reunion, don’t miss Teen Mom OG when it airs Tuesdays at 8 p.m. Eastern time on MTV.

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